What Are We Doing To Our Young Women?
Stunning news that young women and girls are depressed, suicidal even.
Is it really so surprising? I think not.
Think of what their society has taught them:
1. They are equal to males in every way, but actually superior.
2. They can expect to be "amazing", just like Miley and Taylor.
3. Their bodies don't matter, but they'd better look like Miley and Taylor.
4. They are victims, but they can be sassy and snotty with impunity.
5. The world owes them, since they being the majority are still victims.
6. They don't need males in their lives, not even as mothers.
7. Their "femaleness" is not special, men can be that too.
8. What matters isn't reality or morality. What matters is happiness.
9. The US sucks, church sucks, traditions suck, people suck.
10. "Trad wives" and "Trad marriage" is a trap not fulfillment.
Heck, I'm ready to slit my wrists too. Who can blame these young ladies.
Our culture has done our girls terrible damage. More babies are born out of wedlock, if they aren't aborted, than under the aegis of a marriage. Silly preparation for harsh realities of life has taken precedence over education. More and more, young people are indoctrinated to despise the pillars of what upholds a culture: Love of country and family.
With mothers and fathers helicoptering in to baby them, girls are not adulting into mature persons. Their parents seem to have given birth to "besties" rather than children who need mentoring and boundaries. What sick parent takes their child to a trans pole dance for recreation? Or lets their schools install unisex bathrooms and locker rooms? Or tells girls to throw away their natural instincts and desires and become "a man"?
I look at a photo of my own mother and father in mid-life. Mom is absolutely beaming with sheer joy in her vocation as wife and mother. And, yes, she got her degree as an empty nester, started a business, worked at a college and then at a museum. She gave the world six children. She could not have been more fulfilled, more sated in love for her life partner. She wasn't a slave or reluctant. Wife and mother were her natural wants and goals. And no, it's not smooth sailing all the time. But it's the most important thing you'll ever do, and the rewards are eternal.
That's what builds a culture. Families. And the most important person, the glue, the life-giver, the center, the main event in any family is the Mother, the wife, the partner.
Girls, young women, don't be hemmed onto a path that others press upon you. Think for yourselves. Go with your instincts. Some of you may not want marriage or a family. Most of you do. But you've been programmed to reject it. Seek deprogramming, talk to friends with children, visit them, support them even if you decide it's not for you. Children and families must be the future, or we're all doomed.